Nobody has to power to create your reality, besides you. However, sometimes it may seem as though there are outside forces inhibiting the reality you are wishing to manifest, and unfortunately these types of forces can stem from what are called “psychic vampires”, “energy vampires” or “emotional vampires”.
According to Wikipedia’s own definitions…
An “energy vampire” is also used metaphorically to refer to people whose influence leaves a person feeling exhausted, unfocused, and depressed, without ascribing the phenomenon to psychic interference.
If you’ve found yourself feeling drained emotionally, and even physically, from a certain situation, person, or energy – you need to stop, look, and listen to what your body, heart, and mind are telling you. Instinct and intuition are two powers that we have been gifted with to help us identify when something just doesn’t “feel right”, and it is better to release yourself from a situation that does not serve you, as opposed to “serving a sentence” in a “prison” of your own creation. You are your own warden, and you are in control of your life. Do not ever allow any outside influences to tell you otherwise. Emotionally draining people are emotionally drained, and are only trying to create from their frame of reality; unfortunately those on a low vibration of consciousness tend to be the worst “psychic vampires” out there.
There is a saying that states “hurt people, hurt people”, and such is the case with most personality types that try to drain your life force energy, and drag you down. You will find yourself flying high, and doing your absolute best when you surround yourself with people who lift you up, and give you wings. Find your people, your vibrational matches, and soar towards the reality that serves you best.
It is your birth rite to smile, to succeed, and to let your spirit soar. Shield yourself from those who “suck” by keeping calm, breathing through the bad days, and realizing you are meant to shine beautiful, big, and bright – anyone who tells you otherwise, can “suck it”.